Overview
Consider a group of friends who play together at recess. Some are friends because they enjoy the same games (pleasure), while others help each other with schoolwork (utility). Understanding why they are friends can help them appreciate their relationships more.
The Choice
Should Bolanle join the soccer club or tutor Hawa?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 9.1
- Word Count
- 329 words
- Published
- Jun 7, 2025
The Dilemma
Bolanle and Hawa have been friends since the beginning of middle school. Bolanle enjoys spending time with Hawa because they share a love for soccer and often play together after school. Recently, Hawa has been struggling with math and asked Bolanle for help. Bolanle is good at math and has been tutoring Hawa, which has strengthened their friendship. However, a new girl, Amina, has joined their class and is also interested in soccer. Amina is very skilled, and Bolanle enjoys playing with her too. One day, Amina invites Bolanle to join a new soccer club that meets at the same time Bolanle usually tutors Hawa. Bolanle is excited about the opportunity to improve her soccer skills and make new friends, but she also values her friendship with Hawa and wants to continue helping her. Bolanle Every option has its cost.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Join the soccer club with Amina.
Continue tutoring Hawa.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How do different types of friendships play a role in Bolanle's decision?
- 3
What are the potential consequences of each choice for Bolanle's friendships?
- 4
How might Aristotle advise Bolanle in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
Did you like this dilemma?
Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Aristotle
Take a moment to form your own thoughts first, then click to explore philosophical perspectives.
