The Importance of Truthfulness: Should Makena talk to Jae about honesty or not?

By AristotleCharacter Development2 min readGrade 8.6
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Imagine a friend who tells a story about their day. If they make it sound too exciting, others may not believe them, but if they downplay it too much, they might seem boring. Learning to share stories honestly helps them connect better with friends.

The Choice

Should Makena talk to Jae about honesty or not?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.6
Word Count
312 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Makena and Jae met on the first day of middle school and quickly became each other's most trusted confidants. One day, during lunch, Jae excitedly tells Makena about an amazing adventure he had over the weekend. As Jae describes the events, Makena notices that some parts of the story seem exaggerated. Jae mentions meeting a famous celebrity and having a thrilling chase with a wild animal, which sounds too incredible to be true. Makena knows that Jae tends to embellish stories to make them more exciting. Later, some classmates overhear Jae's story and start questioning its truthfulness. Makena feels torn. She values honesty and knows that if Jae continues to exaggerate, it might lead to distrust among their friends. However, she also doesn't want to embarrass Jae or damage their friendship by calling him out in front of others. Makena

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Honesty
vs
Loyalty

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Talk to Jae about honesty.

B

Let Jae continue his story.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    Why is it important to be truthful with friends?

  3. 3

    How can exaggerating stories affect friendships?

  4. 4

    How might Aristotle advise Makena in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Aristotle

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

The Importance of Truthfulness — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

The Importance of Truthfulness — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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