Moderation in All Things: Should Bao use the secret level now or wait?

By EpictetusTechnology Ethics2 min readGrade 8.1
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

During a birthday party, a child might choose to share their cake with friends instead of eating it all themselves. This shows that enjoying things in moderation can lead to happier moments with others.

The Choice

Should Bao use the secret level now or wait?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.1
Word Count
286 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Bao and Quinn became close after being paired together for a competition neither of them wanted to enter. One day, Bao receives a new video game as a birthday gift. Excited, Bao invites Quinn over to play. As they play, Bao discovers a secret level in the game that offers a huge advantage, but it's only accessible once. Quinn suggests they use it immediately to get ahead and enjoy the benefits. However, Bao remembers another friend, Jamie, who also loves the game but couldn’t come over because of a family commitment. Bao wonders if it would be fair to use the secret level now without Jamie. Bao

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Fairness
vs
Loyalty

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Use the secret level now.

B

Wait for Jamie to join.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How might Bao feel if they use the secret level without Jamie?

  3. 3

    What are the pros and cons of waiting for Jamie?

  4. 4

    How might Epictetus advise Bao in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Epictetus

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Moderation in All Things — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

Moderation in All Things — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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