Overview
A teenager might want to go to a concert but can't get tickets. Instead of feeling upset, they can choose to enjoy a movie night with friends at home, finding joy in what they have instead of what they lack.
The Choice
Clara must choose to tell Chen or join herself.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 7.95961904761905
- Word Count
- 336 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Clara and Chen are best friends who love playing soccer. One day, Clara finds out that a new soccer club is starting at school, but there's only one spot left. Chen has been talking about joining a club for weeks, but Clara really wants to join too. Clara knows that if she tells Chen about the club, he might take the last spot. On the other hand, if she keeps it to herself, she can join and enjoy the game she loves. Clara now faces a choice: (A) tell Chen about the soccer club or (B) keep it a secret and join herself.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Tell Chen about the soccer club
Keep it a secret and join herself
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the principle of happiness apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Clara here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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