Overview
Imagine a young athlete who practices hard for a competition but does not win. Instead of feeling defeated, they focus on their effort and the skills they gained, realizing that their true victory lies in their dedication and growth.
The Choice
Clara must choose between supporting Chen or focusing on soccer.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8.175397667020153
- Word Count
- 328 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Clara and Chen are best friends who love playing soccer. They both tried out for the school team, but only Clara made it. Chen feels disappointed, and Clara notices her friend's sadness. The coach asks Clara to help with team strategies, which means spending less time with Chen. Clara values her friendship with Chen and wants to support her, but she also knows that focusing on the team could improve her skills and help her teammates. Clara now faces a choice: (A) spend more time with Chen to support her, or (B) focus on her soccer responsibilities to help the team.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Support Chen, spend more time with her.
Focus on soccer, help the team improve.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does 'Choosing Your Response' apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Clara here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
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