Overview
Consider a child who is afraid of failing in sports. If they focus on enjoying the game instead of fearing failure, they can have fun and improve their skills without stress.
The Choice
Yasmin must choose to perform solo or find another partner.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 9.827012987012989
- Word Count
- 364 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Yasmin and Daiki are preparing for their school's annual talent show. Yasmin loves singing and has been practicing a duet with Daiki for weeks. However, a day before the show, Daiki catches a cold and loses his voice. Yasmin is worried about performing alone and fears she might forget the lyrics or sing off-key. Her teacher suggests she could perform solo or find another partner, but Yasmin feels loyal to Daiki. She also worries about letting down the audience and their friends who are expecting their duet. Yasmin now faces a choice: (A) perform solo, honoring her practice and Daiki's effort, or (B) find another partner to ensure a polished performance.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Perform solo, honoring practice
Find another partner for polish
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the principle of desire and aversion apply here?
- 3
What are the possible consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Yasmin here?
- 5
Have you faced a similar situation? Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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