Overview
Imagine a student preparing for a big test. They can study hard and do their best, which is in their control, but they can't control how well their classmates do or what questions will be on the test. Focusing on their own preparation helps them feel less anxious.
The Choice
Yasmin must choose to help Daiki or focus on her work.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8.961377127028097
- Word Count
- 361 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Yasmin and Daiki are working on a group project for their history class. Yasmin is responsible for gathering information, while Daiki is in charge of the presentation. Yasmin notices that Daiki seems nervous about speaking in front of the class. She wonders if she should offer to help him practice, even though it means she might have less time to perfect her own part of the project. Yasmin knows that Daiki's performance is not in her control, but she can control how well she supports her friend. On the other hand, focusing on her own work might ensure she gets a good grade, which is important to her. Yasmin now faces a choice: (A) offer to help Daiki practice his presentation or (B) focus solely on her own part of the project.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Help Daiki practice his presentation
Focus on her own project work
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the principle of control apply here?
- 3
What are the possible outcomes of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Yasmin here?
- 5
Think about a time you faced a similar choice. Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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