Overview
Before going to a school event, a student thinks about how crowded it might be and how some people might act. By preparing mentally, they can enjoy the event without getting upset about unexpected situations.
The Choice
Bjorn must choose between joining Hana at the VR game or exploring less crowded areas.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8.17026169026169
- Word Count
- 333 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Bjorn and Hana are excited to attend the annual school fair. Bjorn knows the event can get crowded and noisy, which sometimes makes him anxious. Hana suggests they stick together and enjoy the games. As they arrive, Bjorn notices a group of classmates gathered around a new virtual reality game booth. Hana wants to try it, but Bjorn remembers how overwhelming these games can be for him. He also recalls how disappointed Hana was last year when she missed out on a popular game. Bjorn now faces a choice: (A) join Hana in trying the VR game, risking feeling overwhelmed, or (B) suggest they explore less crowded areas, potentially disappointing Hana.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Join Hana at the VR game
Explore less crowded areas
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does 'Maintaining Will in Actions' apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of Bjorn's choices?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Bjorn here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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