Overview
Consider a teenager who chooses their friends wisely, understanding that spending time with those who make poor choices can lead to their own bad decisions, thus they seek out friends who encourage good behavior.
The Choice
Should George join William or attend the study group?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8.7
- Word Count
- 295 words
- Published
- Jun 7, 2025
The Dilemma
George and William, both 12 years old, have been friends since childhood. Recently, William has started hanging out with a new group at school known for skipping classes and causing trouble. George notices that William has been acting differently, often making excuses for not doing homework and occasionally being disrespectful to teachers. One afternoon, William invites George to join him and his new friends at the park instead of attending their after-school study group. George knows that if he skips the study group, he might fall behind in his classes, but he also feels pressured to fit in and maintain his friendship with William. George The moment of decision has arrived.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Join William at the park.
Attend the study group.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How might George feel if he chooses to join William?
- 3
What are the possible long-term effects of George's choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise George in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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