Frederick Douglass on Should Ellie play with Sam or keep drawing?

By Frederick Douglass•Relationships & Social Skills•2 min read•Grade 4.0
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Ellie loves to draw during free time at school. But today, her friend Sam wants to play a game outside and asks Ellie to join.

The Choice

Should Ellie play with Sam or keep drawing?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades K-2
Reading Level
Level 4.009796603844002
Word Count
233 words
Published
Mar 23, 2026

The Dilemma

Ellie loves to draw during free time at school. But today, her friend Sam wants to play a game outside and asks Ellie to join. If Ellie agrees to play, she will miss her drawing time. "Come on, it'll be fun!" says Sam. But Ellie also really wants to continue her drawing.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Loyalty
vs
Autonomy

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Join Sam and play outside.

B

Stay and keep drawing.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    Why might Ellie want to go play with Sam?

  2. 2

    What does Ellie enjoy about drawing?

  3. 3

    How might Sam feel if Ellie says no?

  4. 4

    How would Ellie feel if she misses her drawing time?

  5. 5

    Can Ellie find a way to do both?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Frederick Douglass

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