The Importance of Genuine Behavior: Should Arjun perform authentically or imitate a popular singer?

By John LockeCharacter Development2 min readGrade 9.8
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

In a social setting, a person who tries too hard to fit in by mimicking others ends up feeling uncomfortable and out of place. Meanwhile, someone who is themselves and acts naturally attracts friends who appreciate their authenticity.

The Choice

Should Arjun perform authentically or imitate a popular singer?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 9.8
Word Count
297 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Arjun and Priya are excited about the upcoming talent show at their middle school. Priya, known for her unique style and confidence, plans to perform an original song. Arjun, on the other hand, is feeling the pressure to impress his peers. He has always admired a popular singer and considers mimicking this artist's style for his performance, hoping it will earn him admiration and acceptance. Priya notices Arjun's struggle and encourages him to showcase his own talents instead of imitating someone else. She reminds him that being authentic could help him connect with the audience on a deeper level. As the talent show approaches, Arjun is torn between sticking to his own style or adopting the popular singer's persona to fit in with the crowd. Arjun The decision isn't easy.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Autonomy
vs
Compassion

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Perform his own unique style.

B

Imitate the popular singer.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    Why might Arjun feel pressured to imitate the singer?

  3. 3

    How can being genuine affect Arjun's relationships?

  4. 4

    How might John Locke advise Arjun in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from John Locke

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

The Importance of Genuine Behavior — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

The Importance of Genuine Behavior — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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