Authority Through Friendship: Should Paolo push for the video or support Javier's idea?

By John LockeFairness & Justice2 min readGrade 7.8
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

A teacher who treats their students as friends and encourages them to share their thoughts creates a classroom where students feel safe to express themselves and learn more effectively. This fosters a strong bond of trust and respect, leading to better learning outcomes.

The Choice

Should Paolo push for the video or support Javier's idea?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 7.8
Word Count
305 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Paolo and Javier are part of a group project in their history class. Their teacher, Ms. Carter, has given them the freedom to choose how they want to present their work. Paolo, who is naturally a leader, suggests they create a video presentation. However, Javier, who is shy and prefers working behind the scenes, suggests a written report. Ms. Carter, known for her friendly approach, encourages the students to discuss and decide together, emphasizing the importance of each member's input. Paolo values Ms. Carter's trust and wants to make a decision that respects Javier's comfort while also considering his own enthusiasm for the video. As the group discusses, Paolo notices Javier's hesitance to speak up. He remembers Ms. Carter's advice about the power of friendship in leadership. Paolo The next move is up to them.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Loyalty
vs
Honesty

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Push for the video presentation.

B

Support Javier's written report idea.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How does friendship influence leadership?

  3. 3

    Why is it important to consider everyone's comfort?

  4. 4

    How might John Locke advise Paolo in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from John Locke

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Authority Through Friendship — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

Authority Through Friendship — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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