The Importance of Good Company: Should Laksh join the new group or stay with Min-jun?

By John LockeRelationships & Social Skills2 min readGrade 7.5
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Imagine a teenager who is deciding whether to hang out with a group of friends who often make fun of others or a group that supports and encourages each other. The choice of friends will greatly influence their behavior and self-esteem, shaping the person they become.

The Choice

Should Laksh join the new group or stay with Min-jun?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 7.5
Word Count
319 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Laksh and Min-jun became close after being paired together for a competition neither of them wanted to enter. Recently, a new group of kids at school invited Laksh to join their team for an upcoming tournament. These kids are skilled players, but they often make fun of others who aren't as good, including Min-jun. Laksh feels torn because playing with the new group could improve his skills and popularity, but he doesn't like how they treat others. Meanwhile, Min-jun and their current team are supportive and encouraging, even if they aren't the best players. Laksh values the kindness and respect he receives from Min-jun and his friends, but the allure of being part of a winning team is strong. As the tournament approaches, Laksh

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Loyalty
vs
Autonomy

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Join the new group.

B

Stay with Min-jun's team.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How important is it to be around people who treat others with respect?

  3. 3

    What are the potential long-term effects of choosing friends who are unkind?

  4. 4

    How might John Locke advise Laksh in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from John Locke

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

The Importance of Good Company — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

The Importance of Good Company — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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