The Importance of Reason in Virtue: Should Lars stand up for Alex or walk away?

By Mary WollstonecraftCharacter Development2 min readGrade 8.2
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Imagine a group of friends deciding whether to stand up for a classmate being teased. If they rely solely on what others think instead of their own sense of right and wrong, they might ignore the situation, but if they think critically and act with courage, they can support their friend.

The Choice

Should Lars stand up for Alex or walk away?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.2
Word Count
306 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Lars and Greta are two close friends who often spend time together after school. One day, while walking home, they notice a group of classmates teasing another student, Alex, for his unique fashion choices. Greta feels uncomfortable and suggests they should just ignore it and keep walking. However, Lars feels a strong urge to intervene and stand up for Alex, believing that everyone should be free to express themselves without fear of ridicule. Greta warns Lars that if he steps in, he might become the next target of their classmates' teasing. Lars is torn between wanting to support Alex and fearing the social repercussions of doing so. He knows that acting on his reasoned belief in fairness and courage could help Alex, but he also worries about his own social standing.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Courage
vs
Autonomy

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Stand up for Alex.

B

Walk away with Greta.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    Why might Lars feel torn about his choices?

  3. 3

    What are the possible consequences of each choice?

  4. 4

    How might Mary Wollstonecraft advise Lars in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Mary Wollstonecraft

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Portrait of Mary Wollstonecraft by John Opie, circa 1797, showing her in a white dress and black hat, looking thoughtfully to her left.

Mary Wollstonecraft1759-1797

Mary Wollstonecraft (1759-1797) was a pioneering English feminist philosopher and writer. Her seminal work, 'A Vindication of the Rights of Woman' (1792), argued for women's rationality and the necessity of their education for societal progress.

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

The Importance of Reason in Virtue — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

The Importance of Reason in Virtue — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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