Overview
Alex and Jordan met on the first day of middle school and quickly became each other's most trusted confidants. Lately, Alex notices that Jordan has been skipping study sessions to play video games.
The Choice
Should Alex encourage Jordan to study or to relax?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 9-12
- Reading Level
- Level 10.002401795735128
- Word Count
- 324 words
- Published
- Mar 24, 2026
The Dilemma
Alex and Jordan met on the first day of middle school and quickly became each other's most trusted confidants. Lately, Alex notices that Jordan has been skipping study sessions to play video games. Alex worries about Jordan's grades slipping, but also remembers how stressed Jordan has been with schoolwork. One afternoon, Alex finds out that there's a big test coming up, and it's during the time Jordan usually relaxes. "You know, you could really use some extra study time," Alex suggests. "But then again, maybe a break would help you more," Alex continues, feeling torn between helping Jordan succeed and respecting their need for downtime.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Encourage Jordan to focus on studying.
Encourage Jordan to take a break.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers โ the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What are the potential benefits of studying?
- 2
How might relaxing help or harm Jordan?
- 3
What does being a good friend mean in this situation?
- 4
Can balance between work and relaxation be achieved?
- 5
How would you feel making either choice?
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Philosophical Perspective
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