Overview
A child might feel unhappy because they don't have the newest toy, while a friend finds joy in playing outside and being with friends. This shows that happiness can come from within, regardless of material possessions.
The Choice
Should Jamal borrow the new ball or not?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8
- Word Count
- 357 words
- Published
- Jun 7, 2025
The Dilemma
Jamal and George bonded over a school project two years ago and haven't stopped talking since. One day, George shows up with the latest, expensive soccer ball that everyone has been talking about. Jamal is impressed but also feels a bit envious because he knows his family can't afford such luxuries. George suggests they play with the new ball, and Jamal notices how much fun they are having. However, Jamal also enjoys playing with their old ball, which has sentimental value and has been with them through many games. As they play, Jamal realizes that the joy he feels comes from the game and his friendship with George, not the ball itself. Later, George offers to let Jamal borrow the new ball for a week. Jamal The decision isn't easy.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Borrow the new soccer ball.
Stick with the old ball.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does Jamal's feeling about the new ball change?
- 3
Why might Jamal value the old ball more?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Jamal in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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