Overview
Imagine a child losing a favorite toy. Instead of feeling devastated, they can think of it as returning the toy to where it belongs, allowing them to cherish the memories instead of feeling sad about the loss.
The Choice
Anya must choose to tell Daiki about the lost ball or replace it secretly.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 7.650856299212602
- Word Count
- 254 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Anya and Daiki are best friends who love playing soccer. One day, Anya accidentally kicks the ball over the fence into a neighbor's yard, where it's lost in the bushes. The ball was a special gift from Daiki's grandfather, and he feels sad about losing it. Anya feels guilty and wants to make it right. She could either confess to Daiki and offer to help find the ball or replace it, or she could quietly save up to buy a new one without telling him. Anya now faces a choice: (A) Tell Daiki and try to find the ball together, or (B) Save up and replace the ball without telling him.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Tell Daiki and find the ball together
Replace the ball without telling him
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the principle of 'Perspective on Loss' apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Anya here?
- 5
Have you ever lost something important? Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
Take a moment to form your own thoughts first, then click to explore philosophical perspectives.
