Overview
Before sending a text message that might upset a friend, a teenager takes a moment to think about how their words might affect the other person, choosing to rephrase it to avoid hurt feelings.
The Choice
Should Malik be honest about the game or not?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 7.5
- Word Count
- 279 words
- Published
- Jun 7, 2025
The Dilemma
Malik and Sven have known each other long enough to know exactly which buttons not to push. One day, Sven texts Malik about a new video game he’s excited about. However, Malik finds the game boring and not worth the hype. Before replying, Malik remembers that Sven has been really enthusiastic about this game and has been looking forward to playing it with him. Malik knows that if he tells Sven the truth, it might hurt his feelings and dampen his excitement. On the other hand, Malik values honesty and doesn’t want to pretend to like something he doesn’t. Malik
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Be honest about the game.
Keep his feelings to himself.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How might Malik's honesty affect his friendship with Sven?
- 3
Is it always better to be honest, even if it might hurt someone?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Malik in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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