Acting Your Part in Life: Anya must choose to support Daiki or focus on herself.

By EpictetusRelationships & Social Skills2 min readGrade 8.5
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Think about being in a school play: instead of wishing to be the main character, you focus on doing your best in the role you have, knowing that every part is important.

The Choice

Anya must choose to support Daiki or focus on herself.

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.48260042283298
Word Count
344 words
Published
Mar 23, 2026

The Dilemma

Anya and Daiki are in their school's drama club, preparing for the annual play. Anya is assigned a minor role, while Daiki lands the lead. Anya feels disappointed, wishing she had a bigger part. During rehearsals, she notices Daiki struggling with his lines and stage presence. The director, Ms. Lee, praises Anya for her dedication and hints she could step in if Daiki can't perform. Anya is torn between helping Daiki improve his performance and hoping for a chance to take the lead herself. She knows every role is crucial for the play's success, but the allure of the spotlight tempts her. Anya now faces a choice: (A) support Daiki and help him succeed in his role, or (B) focus on her own performance, hoping to replace him if he falters.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Loyalty
vs
Responsibility

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Help Daiki improve his performance

B

Focus on her own role, hoping to replace him

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How does 'Acting Your Part in Life' apply here?

  3. 3

    What are the possible consequences of each choice?

  4. 4

    How might Epictetus advise Anya here?

  5. 5

    Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?

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Philosophical Perspective

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Acting Your Part in Life — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

Acting Your Part in Life — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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