Acting Your Part: Should Diego help Jae succeed or focus on making his own small role shine?

By EpictetusRelationships & Social Skills2 min readGrade 9.3
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Think of a child in a school play who is cast as a tree. Instead of feeling disappointed, they embrace their role and give a great performance, understanding that every part is important in the story.

The Choice

Should Diego help Jae succeed or focus on making his own small role shine?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 9.348521448128995
Word Count
346 words
Published
Mar 23, 2026

The Dilemma

Diego and Jae are part of the school's annual play. Diego is cast as a tree, a role he finds boring, while Jae gets a lead role. Diego feels overlooked and considers not putting effort into his part. However, the teacher emphasizes that every role is crucial for the play's success. Diego notices that Jae is struggling with lines and needs help. Diego now faces a choice: (A) spend his rehearsal time helping Jae with lines, because the play's success depends on the lead doing well, or (B) focus entirely on perfecting his own small role, because his first duty is to do his own part well.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Loyalty
vs
Responsibility

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Spend his rehearsal time helping Jae with lines, because the play's success depends on the lead doing well

B

Focus entirely on perfecting his own small role, because that is the part he was given and his first duty is to do it well

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How does 'Acting Your Part' apply here?

  3. 3

    What are the consequences of each choice?

  4. 4

    How might Epictetus advise Diego here?

  5. 5

    Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Epictetus

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Acting Your Part — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
participation
Standard15 min

Acting Your Part — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
participation