Overview
Imagine a child at a birthday party who eagerly waits for their turn to choose a slice of cake instead of rushing to grab the first piece. They understand that patience brings its own rewards and that they will eventually enjoy their treat.
The Choice
Bjorn must choose to push his ideas or wait.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 7.369789574366333
- Word Count
- 246 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Bjorn and Hana are part of a school project team. The teacher announced that the best project would be displayed at the school fair. Bjorn, eager to impress, wants to take the lead and make all decisions. However, Hana suggests they should wait for input from their other teammates before finalizing anything. Bjorn feels the pressure to succeed but also knows that Hana’s approach might lead to a more inclusive project. As the deadline approaches, Bjorn must decide whether to push his ideas forward quickly or to take a step back and wait for the others to contribute. Bjorn now faces a choice: (A) push his ideas forward quickly or (B) wait for the others to contribute.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Push his ideas forward quickly
Wait for others to contribute
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the banquet principle apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Bjorn here?
- 5
Think about your own experiences. Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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