Overview
Think about being in a school play where you have a small role. Instead of feeling disappointed, you focus on doing your best to make the play enjoyable for everyone, knowing that every part is important.
The Choice
Anders must choose between focusing on his role or helping Eun-Kyung.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8.197402985074628
- Word Count
- 268 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Anders and Eun-Kyung are excited about their school's annual play. Anders, who loves acting, is disappointed to find out he has been given a minor role with only a few lines, while Eun-Kyung has a lead role. During rehearsals, Anders notices that Eun-Kyung struggles with some scenes and secretly wishes he had her part. However, he also realizes that his role, although small, is crucial for the play's success. As the performance approaches, Eun-Kyung asks Anders for help with her lines. Anders now faces a choice: (A) focus on perfecting his role to make the play successful, or (B) spend time helping Eun-Kyung, even if it means less time for his own part.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Perfect his own role
Help Eun-Kyung with her lines
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does 'playing your role in life' apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Anders here?
- 5
Can you think of a time you had to choose between helping a friend and focusing on your own work?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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