Overview
A child learns that not every game can be won, and instead of being upset about losing, they focus on enjoying the game and supporting their teammates. This acceptance helps them stay positive.
The Choice
Should Sade focus on winning or support Zola?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 7.4
- Word Count
- 304 words
- Published
- Jun 7, 2025
The Dilemma
Sade and Zola bonded over a school project two years ago and haven't stopped talking since. They've been training hard for the upcoming championship match, which is crucial for their team. On the day of the match, Sade is feeling the pressure to perform well, as everyone is counting on her. During the game, despite their best efforts, their team is losing. Sade notices that Zola, who is usually a star player, is having an off day and seems upset. Sade is torn between focusing on her own performance to help the team win or supporting her friend who clearly needs encouragement. As the final minutes of the game approach, Sade realizes that winning might not be possible today. She
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Focus on winning the game.
Support Zola and boost her morale.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How might Sade feel if she focuses solely on winning?
- 3
What could happen if Sade chooses to support Zola?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Sade in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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