Learning Through Experience: Should Rohan try out for the soccer team or not?

By Mary WollstonecraftCharacter Development2 min readGrade 8.4
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Consider a young person who is hesitant to try out for a sports team because they fear failure. If they are encouraged to participate despite the risk, they might learn valuable lessons about teamwork and resilience, which can help them grow.

The Choice

Should Rohan try out for the soccer team or not?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.4
Word Count
327 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Rohan and Isabella bonded over a school project two years ago and haven't stopped talking since. Their school is hosting tryouts for the soccer team, and Isabella is excited to try out. However, Rohan is hesitant because he fears he might not make the team and worries about the embarrassment of failing in front of his peers. Isabella encourages him, saying that trying out is a valuable experience regardless of the outcome. She reminds him that even if he doesn't make the team, he'll learn more about his strengths and weaknesses and improve his skills for next time. Rohan is torn between his fear of failure and the potential growth he could gain from the experience. He knows that trying out could teach him important lessons about resilience and teamwork, but the fear of not succeeding is strong.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Courage
vs
Perseverance

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Try out for the soccer team.

B

Avoid trying out for safety.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How might trying out help Rohan grow?

  3. 3

    What are the risks of not trying out?

  4. 4

    How might Mary Wollstonecraft advise Rohan in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Mary Wollstonecraft

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Portrait of Mary Wollstonecraft by John Opie, circa 1797, showing her in a white dress and black hat, looking thoughtfully to her left.

Mary Wollstonecraft1759-1797

Mary Wollstonecraft (1759-1797) was a pioneering English feminist philosopher and writer. Her seminal work, 'A Vindication of the Rights of Woman' (1792), argued for women's rationality and the necessity of their education for societal progress.

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Learning Through Experience — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
participation
Standard15 min

Learning Through Experience — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
participation