Overview
Think about a birthday party where one person only focuses on eating the best cake, ignoring their friends. By being mindful of sharing and enjoying the moment, they strengthen friendships.
The Choice
Should Inaya take the large piece or let Mei have it?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8
- Word Count
- 305 words
- Published
- Jun 7, 2025
The Dilemma
Inaya and Mei are at Mei's birthday party, enjoying a delicious homemade cake that Mei's mom baked. As the slices are being served, Inaya notices that there are only two large slices left. She overhears Mei mentioning how much she loves the corner pieces with extra frosting. Inaya, who also loves those pieces, is next in line to choose. She feels a strong urge to take the large corner piece for herself, but she also values her friendship with Mei and wants her to have a special moment on her birthday. Inaya The next move is up to them.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Take the large corner piece.
Let Mei have the corner piece.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How might taking the corner piece affect Inaya and Mei's friendship?
- 3
Why might it be important for Mei to have the piece she loves on her birthday?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Inaya in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
Did you like this dilemma?
Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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