Overview
Imagine a student preparing for a big test. They can control how much they study and their attitude, but they can't control the questions on the test or how others perform. By focusing on their own efforts, they feel less anxious and more confident.
The Choice
Talia must choose between supporting Chen or being honest.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 9.509212990936557
- Word Count
- 331 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Talia and Chen are working on a group project at school. Talia is responsible for the presentation, while Chen handles the research. The teacher announces a surprise peer review where each group member will rate their teammates' contributions. Talia knows Chen has been struggling at home and hasn't contributed much, but she values their friendship and wants to support him. However, she also feels responsible for being honest in her review. Talia now faces a choice: (A) give Chen a supportive review, focusing on their friendship, or (B) provide an honest review, focusing on fairness and responsibility.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Support Chen in the review
Be honest in the review
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the principle of control apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Talia here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
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